My mother was born October 19, 1936 in Germany. She died recently on her 88th birthday last fall. She lived through World War II as a child in Germany and she could be difficult to deal with which it was easy to chalk up to her misfortune of having been a child in a war zone and having lived in Nazi Germany. Except I grew up in the German-American-military subculture unique to Columbus, Georgia and I knew other German women who were similar in age to my mother. My mother seemed unusually difficult in some ways even for a German woman of that era in spite of being an uncommonly kind, generous person, far more decent and diplomatic than average. My mother definitely had baggage and she was from a previous era and her beliefs were sometimes "primitive" beliefs even though she was unusually smart and she read a lot. She believed in astrology and she believed in psychic phenomenon and she was always trying to convince people that if she dreamed something was going to happen, it w...
Never look back. It distracts from the now.