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I'm a former military wife and homeschooling mom who has spent an excessive amount of time on Hacker News over the years. In addition to pissing my life away on Hacker News, I can be found wasting my time on Reddit and Twitter.

As an early 36th birthday present from the universe, in May of 2001 I was diagnosed with a mild variation of a very serious and deadly genetic disorder. Getting a better name for my condition than hypochondriac was very empowering and I've been getting healthier ever since.

I have been trying to eke out a living as a writer for a lot of years, including doing a lot of pointless blogging on various sites where most posts get well under 100 page views. I began this exercise in frustration while homeless perma-camping for my health for some years.

Miscellaneous
  • I was Director of Community Life, lead moderator and in charge of diversity for The TAG Project during a time when they were trying to become an officially incorporated non-profit, an effort they later abandoned.
  • I am ethnically German/Irish/Cherokee plus culturally from the Deep South and a former Military dependent, so I never quite fit in anywhere.
  • I spent a few years as a divorced single mom processing accident claims at the insurance giant Aflac.
  • I've been interviewed via phone or email a few times over the years and quoted in a few books and articles.
  • In spite of being American, I have been car free for over a decade.


November 2022.

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